Sex is pleasurable, sex is good, sometimes we have great sex that sticks to our minds over an extended period, but how do you usually initiate sex with your partner? The thing is, it is not every time your partner will be on the same wavelength as you. Sometimes you may feel like having sex, and your partner is either too exhausted for it, tired from work, or not into having sex at that moment at all. This makes it challenging to initiate sex sometimes. I want to help you overcome this challenge, and your partner will undoubtedly say “yes!” if you follow these easy tips.
Draw Your Inspiration from The Past
Indeed there were times in the past where you had amazing sex with your partner. Neither of you could ever forget memories of those times. Recall what you did that made it memorable; did you set up a romantic dinner? Maybe you spent the whole day being naughty with each other, what time of day did you have the sex? Was it a working-day or weekend or during vacation? Talking about this event can be fun and can stimulate the desire to “get down” in your partner.
Compliment Your Partner
Everyone loves a kind word; everyone likes compliments. Let your partner know why you want to be intimate with them at that particular moment. You can make comments about how they look, how much you value what they are offering in the relationship, you can appreciate the connection you have with your partner, this is a great way to initiate sex.
Relax, Relax, Relax
When people have a lot on their plate, it will be difficult to consent to any request to have sex. It is your responsibility to make your partner feel relaxed, ask them what you can do to help them relax. You can also suggest anything you know your partner loves to do. Fun things take away stress, it sets the right balance, and you’ll have a better chance at getting your sex request consented to.
Anticipation makes the adrenaline pump faster, build the desire for sex in your partner even before you meet them at the end of the day. Tease them, talk about what they love to do in bed, tell them you are wearing the underwear they love so much. This builds the desire to want to have sex
Add A few Sentiments to It
Talk about your best sexual encounters of the past, also talk about your sexual fantasies when you want to initiate sex. Ask your partner; “do you have any sexual fantasies you would like to give a try? I am ready if you are” this will get your partner thinking for a while, they may have wanted to do one thing or the other in the past but were too scared to ask. This sets the platform for that, and you could be on your way to having the hottest sex of your life.
Initiating sex in the early stage of a relationship is easy, but as time goes on, it becomes more difficult, you have to remain sexy to your partner, improve on yourself, and make them want to be with you always.