Long lasting relationships can decrease sexual desire. In the beginning most couples don’t talk about this fact because they both want sex. Even couples that are not very sexual understand in their subconscious that sex is important to substantiating the relationship. And of course being in love also contributes a great deal to this as well. As the relationship matures and the sense of certainty in the relationship grows, couples find themselves more and…
The connection between sex and food is very common in our society. Many foods are perceived as aphrodisiacs, and the term “pleasures of the flesh” has quite the double meaning. A person who takes pleasure in eating is often presumed to enjoy the pleasures of sex. Many movie scenes combining sex with food were implanted in our minds over the years. The ice scene and the wine and strawberries scene from the movie 9½…
One of my clients asked me once: “why do I have such a hard time reaching an orgasm? I don’t understand what this ‘orgasm’ is that everyone talks about. Even in the rare occasions I did manage to come, I didn’t understand what was happening to me and what I was feeling. It was like a wave of warm heat engulfing me, coupled with currents of pleasure”. The female orgasm is an interesting feeling,…
While working with different women, many have confided in me that sometimes they are frustrated because they aren’t able to communicate well with their partner during sex. For example: “He’s hurting me”, “He keeps touching the top of my clitoris but I like it when he touches the sides”, “He bites my nipples”, “He always wants me on all fours and I don’t always feel comfortable with it”, “He puts his finger inside me…
Awareness is the ability to be present in every moment of your life without your or anyone else’s judgment. It is the ability to accept everything, repel nothing, and create everything you desire in life – bigger than what you have now, and more than you can imagen. Every women is unique and has places she can empower within herself to discover the sexual hidden treasures inside of her. All that is required is…
As strange as it may sound today, up until the 1950’s it wasn’t acceptable, respected or understood, that a woman has the right to enjoy sex. It was always just assumed that she was enjoying it. As a general rule, a woman’s role was to become pregnant and bear children. Because women got pregnant, men assumed they also enjoyed the intercourse. Men’s enjoyment of sex was always granted, tangible and visual while women’s enjoyment…
