The power to make real change is on our mind No one ever talked to us about sex, we saw and read about it here and there but no one really ever talked to us about the subject. Not our parents, teachers or guides, so why are we so surprised that as women, we know almost nothing about our sexuality and are, therefore, unable to truly enjoy it as our body has the potential to? Today’s…
Sex as a daily routineWhen does sex, become a routine for you? After a month? Three months? Maybe six? After you have moved in together? After you get married? After the first child? Maybe the second?And what does “sex as a routine” even mean? Having sex although you are not really in the mood, he is? Sex you have but don’t really enjoy? Sex that you wait for it every time with anticipation?When do…
The importance of the sacred space in love making Routine is the worst enemy of love making amongst married couples. No one chooses to stop wanting their partner, it just happens naturally. But we don’t have to accept routine as an unavoidable obstacle. We can act in ways that would push it away and won’t let it appear. All we have to do is break our patterns, because patterns are bound to promote routine.Feng Shui…
How does our “sexual body” work?Hey! I wanted to talk to you about a few important things to do with our sexual body.What is sex? Where do we have sex? For how long? How many times a week?What do you feel during an orgasm? How important is penetration, for your sexual pleasure?The answers to these questions (and more), can explain the sexual perception we each have. When a woman comes to me, it is…
Imagine being comfortable being completely naked in front of your partner, telling him exactly how and what you feel, what you like and where you like being touched and imagine that being able to do, by itself, enhances your sexual pleasure. I understood that just as I have gone through an amazing transformation, and just like I am very confident and relaxed in my sexual life, love myself more and feel better than ever, any…
During my many sessions with women, I hear an argument they make regarding their parents. They claim that even when they were children, their parent instilled in the women the thought that enjoying sex or acting in a way that men would interpret as inviting sex, was undignified. For example “don’t look men in the eyes”, “don’t walk around too exposed” (and the natural follow on: “so people don’t think you are a slut”),…
One of my clients asked me once: “why do I have such a hard time reaching an orgasm? I don’t understand what this ‘orgasm’ is that everyone talks about. Even in the rare occasions I did manage to come, I didn’t understand what was happening to me and what I was feeling. It was like a wave of warm heat engulfing me, coupled with currents of pleasure”. The female orgasm is an interesting feeling,…
While working with different women, many have confided in me that sometimes they are frustrated because they aren’t able to communicate well with their partner during sex. For example: “He’s hurting me”, “He keeps touching the top of my clitoris but I like it when he touches the sides”, “He bites my nipples”, “He always wants me on all fours and I don’t always feel comfortable with it”, “He puts his finger inside me…
Awareness is the ability to be present in every moment of your life without your or anyone else’s judgment. It is the ability to accept everything, repel nothing, and create everything you desire in life – bigger than what you have now, and more than you can imagen. Every women is unique and has places she can empower within herself to discover the sexual hidden treasures inside of her. All that is required is…
As strange as it may sound today, up until the 1950’s it wasn’t acceptable, respected or understood, that a woman has the right to enjoy sex. It was always just assumed that she was enjoying it. As a general rule, a woman’s role was to become pregnant and bear children. Because women got pregnant, men assumed they also enjoyed the intercourse. Men’s enjoyment of sex was always granted, tangible and visual while women’s enjoyment…
